Yoked to Jesus

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Gospel

THE HOLY GOSPEL OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST

ACCORDING TO MATTHEW

Jesus said, "To what will I compare this generation? It is like children sitting in the marketplaces and calling to one another, 'We played the flute for you, and you did not dance; we wailed, and you did not mourn.' For John came neither eating nor drinking, and they say, 'He has a demon'; the Son of Man came eating and drinking, and they say, 'Look, a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and sinners!' Yet wisdom is vindicated by her deeds." At that time Jesus said, "I thank you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because you have hidden these things from the wise and the intelligent and have revealed them to infants; yes, Father, for such was your gracious will. All things have been handed over to me by my Father; and no one knows the Son except the Father, and no one knows the Father except the Son and anyone to whom the Son chooses to reveal him. Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light."

MATTHEW 11:16-19, 25-30

Sermon: The Rev. Dr. Maryann Amor

Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.

What gives you rest? Is it binge watching Netflix? Taking a day off to sleep in? Is it going on vacation? Or maybe having a spa day?

For many of us, rest is stopping activity, recovering from the busyness of our lives. And so, when we hear Jesus speak about giving us rest, we might think Jesus is going to take away all the things that make us busy. Jesus is going to give us time to recover, to relax. Jesus is going to remove our troubles and give us a day off.

But today's Gospel is a lot more complicated than this. Jesus says, "Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest," and then almost immediately he says, "Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me."

Did you notice what just happened? Jesus started by saying that he will give rest to the weary and burdened, and then he says, "Take my yoke." He isn't saying, "Take off the yoke," which would sound much more like rest. He doesn't even say, "Take my holiday, take my spa day, take my day off." Instead, he says, "Take my yoke." Take that big wooden beam that animals carried when they plowed the fields and put it on yourself. To follow the promise of rest with the command to take a yoke seems like a massive contradiction.

But the important part of this image isn't the weight of the yoke. It's what a yoke does. A yoke binds two animals together so they can plow a field side by side instead of doing the work alone. Jesus isn't handing us a yoke and sending us out into the field by ourselves. He is stepping into it with us. He is saying, let me yoke myself to you. Let us carry the burdens of life together. You don't have to carry them alone.

So this passage isn't about finding rest because all the difficult things in our lives disappear. Instead, it is about joining ourselves to Jesus and allowing him to carry our burdens with us. That is where we begin to find rest.

But Jesus doesn't simply tell us to take his yoke. He also says, "Learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart." As we walk beside him, we begin to learn a different way of living. We discover that we no longer have to prove ourselves, compete with everyone around us, or pretend we have everything together. Instead, we learn gentleness. We learn humility. We learn to trust that we are loved by God. And as we learn this new way of living, we begin to discover the rest that Jesus promises.

The world says: Prove yourself. Be successful. Be perfect. Carry everything yourself. Never admit weakness.

Jesus says: Come to me. Walk with me. Learn from me. Let me carry this with you. Let my gentleness and humility shape your life.

Imagine two people both doing the same very stressful job. One of them is driven by fear, deeply worried they won't make enough money to feed their family. They worry they will lose their job because of downsizing. They constantly strive to prove themselves to their boss, doing everything they can to be perfect all the time.

The other person has the same workload and the same pressures. They still worry from time to time. But in their heart they know they are loved by God. They know they are held by God. They know they are not alone, that no matter what happens, someone walks beside them.

On the surface the two people seem the same. They do the same job and face the same pressures, but on the inside they are very different. One is carrying every burden alone. The other is learning to carry those same burdens with Christ. Their circumstances haven't changed, but the way they carry them has.

This doesn't mean life suddenly becomes easy. It means we no longer face it alone. The burden may still be heavy, but it is no longer ours to carry by ourselves. That is why Jesus can say his yoke is easy and his burden is light—not because life becomes effortless, but because he bears it with us.

When Jesus offers us rest, he doesn't offer us an escape from our lives. He doesn't tell us to go home and binge Netflix. Instead, he offers us his yoke. He offers us himself. He invites us to walk beside him and to learn from his gentleness and humility.

So as we leave today, we will still face burdens, difficult marriages, worrying diagnoses, financial stress, grief, loneliness, and all the other things we carry. But today Jesus reminds us that none of these need be carried alone. He doesn't offer us an escape from life. He offers us himself.

Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.